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What Political Civility Really is and Combatting Toxicity w/ Michael Lee | Politics with Paul #86

E87 • Mar 31, 2026 • 46 mins

Do we know what civility in conversation actually looks like? Healthy and grounded discussion is in short supply, especially in politics. Political discussions are often filled with toxic rhetoric and behavior, leading to many instances of verbal and physical violence. But while we know what toxicity looks like, there are some misunderstandings and mistaken beliefs about what civility looks like.  So how do we become more civil? Today's guest, Dr. Michael Lee, dives into this question and more. Dr. Lee is the executive director of the Civility Initiative at the College of Charleston and the host of the "When We Disagree" Podcast. Check out his insights, spanning over multiple decades, on what we get wrong about civility, how to better engage in healthy discussion, and how to make civil dialogue more engaging and fun.

Key Points

  • Civility involves more than mere politeness; it encompasses active engagement and perspective-taking.
  • Avoidance of difficult conversations often masquerades as civility but can ultimately contribute to greater division.
  • Building bridges and expanding social circles through dialogue with strangers are practical steps to promote civility and reduce toxicity.

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